The inspiration for Same Love Surrogacy came from personal experience… the experience of three gay dads who created their families via surrogacy and egg donation and a four-time surrogate for international and domestic gay intending parents. What all this personal experience taught us is that, even though more and more LGBTQ individuals are seeking to become parents via assisted reproductive tec...
The inspiration for Same Love Surrogacy came from personal experience… the experience of three gay dads who created their families via surrogacy and egg donation and a four-time surrogate for international and domestic gay intending parents. What all this personal experience taught us is that, even though more and more LGBTQ individuals are seeking to become parents via assisted reproductive technology, there are no agencies specifically designed to serve their needs. Sadly, all too often, even those agencies that purport to serve the LGTBTQ community as part of their client population fall short in doing so. The result is a cookie-cutter approach that fails to recognize and respect the cultural environment and societal challenges faced by LGBTQ intended parents.
HERE IS WHAT YOU WILL EXPERIENCE AS A CLIENT OF SAME LOVE SURROGACY
Personalized, one-on-one guidance through every step of the process with a single, experienced counselor—not a different person for every new phase;
Professionalism and discretion—complete respect and protection of your and your family’s privacy;
Up-front, fully transparent pricing, including sliding scale packag...
HERE IS WHAT YOU WILL EXPERIENCE AS A CLIENT OF SAME LOVE SURROGACY
Personalized, one-on-one guidance through every step of the process with a single, experienced counselor—not a different person for every new phase;
Professionalism and discretion—complete respect and protection of your and your family’s privacy;
Up-front, fully transparent pricing, including sliding scale packages;
We come to you: we know your life is busy and demanding—we can arrange meeting times and locations most convenient for you—including in your own home.


I'm an experienced surrogate and used this company for my second journey. I don't believe they screen their IPs correctly as I started having issues with mine post delivery. Things like paying their bills, using an escrow account, paying me the rest of my compensation and the like. They had no answers. They just allowed the IPs to walk all over them and essentially me. They didn't use any means to enforce the contract. All they had were apologies. There was no fight in them. Compared to my other agency that I have experience with, I'm being generous giving them one star. I am now stuck with bills because of their lack of support. They don't work for the surrogate, I don't even know if they work for the IPs but they are a joke.
Awful experience for both my partner and I: we’ve had to terminate our agreement with this agency after contracting them to help us find a surrogate in.. November 2022 (and no result on finding us one). We understood that the agencies process of starting to look for surrogates would not start up until our embryos got created (mid-2023), which was fine. We have however not felt supported through this whole journey and sensed that our point of contact was more interested in making money rather than helping couples realise their dreams. They made us several false promises about waiting periods (“we will have someone for you in December” closer to the date it would then become “January”, then “February”) whereas other agencies waiting periods is literally one to three months. During that waiting time we were having alerts from friends letting us know that this agencies service went from good (a few years back) to really bad, which we’ve literally witnessed. Never again.
While I wish I could give five stars, my experience here has been pretty negative. After having to switch coordinators due to the first not requesting documents from my doctors, the new one was very on top of things and I felt things were good. When I had my match and eventually went to their clinic, I didn't know that SLS already had prior issues with the doctor. At my medical screening the doctor said I needed a hysteroscopy done as a shadow was observed but that it was very routine and shouldn't be an issue. After speaking to my coordinator it sounded like the IPs may not want to move forward as that doctor wanted to charge $9k. I said I would talk to my OBGYN to find out the cost as I wanted to make sure everyone was good too. I paid about $2,100 out of pocket myself for this surgery. And according to other surrogates once you have this surgery you should be good and done. Well my IPs doctor never read the report and had me back for another SIS and still saw a shadow (which now has been said is likely uterine lining from birth control). This agency did nothing to advocate for me even after having me spend my own money on a surgery my own OB said was pointless because I didn't need it. Now they came back and asked if I would pay for it again AND pay to travel to to CA to see a different IVF clinic to be cleared. After two months of being ghosted asking for follow up, I'm posting this here so hopefully someone else doesn't get the same treatment I did.